Every successful first date is filled with new stories and information that give you a keyhole to peek inside the lifestyle and mindset of the guy you’re with.Think of each little bit of information as a “peg” that you can hang a future date or experience on.Anything you can do to get him on your turf or into your world of dreams and schemes will make you a more three-dimensional woman.Men fall in love when a woman becomes incorporated into their lives and when they cross over into her world, too.That’s not how you build a foundation for a successful, loving future. If you want to see if he is long-term material, you have to inject some of yourself into each date, too.Maybe you let him pick the restaurant to begin the second date, and maybe you base the date on his love of basketball.Unless you want to become another pair of lips, boobs and booty, you have to begin to reveal to him the Sue or Sandy or Rachel inside of you.That is the real prize you have to offer, which he cannot get from any other woman.
So if things are going well on date number one, plant a seed for the second date then and there.
There is no need to invite him over for a second date and come to the door covered in whipped cream.
That physical part of the attraction is a done deal.
A girl should go into her first several dates with a new guy knowing exactly what he will be getting from her physically.
You might wear a loose sweater with a single-clasp bra but a belt buckle that Houdini would have trouble with, for instance. You are 100 percent in charge of all physical aspects of every relationship.