If he or she only wants you to come over and have sex with him, that's not a great indicator that he or she likes you for who you are and wants to spend time with you because you're smart and interesting. Why do you even want a relationship with this person, anyways? Great sex isn't a reason to get involved in a full-fledged relationship, and the comfort that comes with seeing someone regularly is also not a reason. If he or she is a mature human being, they'll be able to handle a conversation about what is going on between the two of you.
Make a list of pros and cons to help you clarify what it actually is that you want — and if it's this person or not. Don't pressure them about it, and don't go all '80s romcom on them with crazy declarations of love.
If your device runs i OS 7, you can block Face Time and messages from known addresses that disturb you.
However, if unknown individuals are bothering you with frequent i Message text messages, you can adjust your Notification settings to ensure that you are not interrupted with alerts when messages from unknown contacts are received (the messages will still be waiting for you in the Messages app, but you will not receive pop-up or banner notifications about them).
From the settings app, use Message or Face Time preferences to add numbers to a your devices block list. I have been facetiming my elderly mother nightly for a long time. When we upgraded to i OS 7 we started to have trouble, she said she was not receiving my calls.
Then, ensure that the person who is harassing you via i Messages is NOT in your Contacts.These are little signs that your fling could be heading towards some sort of real relationship.Is your routine that you come over on Saturday night, hang out, and have sex? I hate to quote He's Just Not That Into You, but I'm going to do it: If a person wants to date you, they will date you. If you've been acting like you're fine with the hookup, it's now time to start changing your behavior and see if her or she reciprocates.I'm not talking about inviting him or her to a wedding in six months. If there's a band you both like that will be in town next month, suggest that you get tickets. But if you've been dating or seeing each other for a few months, it's time to broach the social media sea.Now you have plans for September that don't involve a 11 p.m. If you aren't Facebook or Instagram friends, add him or her and see what happens.