That gray outer game bubble is weak and tiny because you're forced to "fake" a lot more than you should have to. Now, just imagine what would happen when your Inner Game and your Outer Game are complete and congruent.
Your game would look like THIS: Big difference, huh?
Women want it from us, and guys spend most of their lives working on feeling it and showing it.
And when you don't feel confident, your life just doesn't feel right.
Otherwise you end up with game that looks like this: This is what you don't want...
See that small area where "inner game" and "outer game" intersect?
Skyrocket your success with women, increase your social circle, and get rid of your anxious fears once and for all...
FROM: Carlos Xuma Thursday - PM Dear Friend, Confidence is the number one concern for every guy I've ever met.
And you sure as hell don't want to feel like you can't control your own success with women. You ever try using a line on a woman and have it fall flat - like, flat on its face? I coach and talk to guys every day that learn a lot of techniques and "lines" to use on women, but they don't seem to work for them. Usually because of the level of self-esteem and self confidence of the guy using them. And I bet it killed your confidence quick, too, didn't it?And, in reality, just by using another guy's lines and words, you're sending a subtle message to your self-esteem that the only thing you can do to attract women is NOT be yourself. But Don't You Need Techniques and "Outer Game" Stuff To Attract Women? So, yes, you absolutely need the techniques and conversational strategies that I teach.BUT the fact is that you simply cannot run completely on "Outer Game" scripts either - on techniques and routines - all by themselves.I would start acting up - just like a little bratty kid.I could even SEE myself doing it, and KNOWING that it was killing my chances with this girl... And then I went on this massive inner game "quest" I guess you could call it.